You know how some guys enjoy taking care of a girl so much because it makes them feel needed. Because she's weak and helpless and needs someone to look after her. Because she is an idiot who needs to be sorted out by a so-called 'man'.
I know some girls like that. So dependent and yet so blissfully contented and loved. While I've always been happy and somewhat proud of my strong headedness and my ability to stand on my own, solving my own puzzles that life throws and looking for ways to make this never ending maze of an existance less impossible... I do wish that sometimes, when some guy tells me that he's gonna hold my hand and be there through every crap, he'd mean it and that I'd believe it. Instead of inwardly scoffing at this obvious lie.
They found it easy to leave me because they knew that I'd be ok. They knew that I'd pick myself up. They knew that I'll never use a suicide threat. So... I'm thinking - should i play damsel in distress the next time, instead of the one causing distress?
Hmm. This must be one of those nights. I'm just gonna continue watching Desperate Housewives.
2 comments:
You know babe,
A real guy, worth your time and thoughts, doesn't have to be always by your side 24/7. Some girls, like you mentioned, think that a guy should always be saving them and they act needy all the time. A real guy who is worthy of you, will be attracted to your independence and respects you for it by giving you that space to do so. He comes in when you need him the most, even without you having to tell sometimes. :)
You are right. Anyway who wants a guy to be there 24/7 right? Space is very important!
Yeah... and to have a guy so sensitive like that... one who knows without being told, like you described... is close to impossible. So I'd probably not keep my hopes up too high.
Wish they can be customized like iPods. Oh well. Technology has its limits.
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