It's really how you handle it.

I hate it when people who have found love early on in their lives seem to think that they know it all.

Yeah i know that you prolly got it right somewhere along the way... But it really doesn't mean that the rest of us got it all wrong. We tried too. Probably harder & in many more different ways than you have.

It's just our misfortune that it did not play out like your fairytale. But you know what, we pick ourselves up and give ourselves that chance to change for the better (after spiralling out of control, sometimes... or many a time) all on our own.

It's just not for you to orchestrate how people choose to mend what others have broken. Judge away if you want, i don't care & that can't be helped anyway. Just do not interfere if your intentions aren't to help make any of it easier.